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Dealing with Monotony

Do you feel like every day is the same?

The same house to wake up to, the same people who live with you, the same walk around the block, the same work schedule and Zoom calls, the same drive to the grocery store, the same uncertainty. Rinse and repeat. This monotonous lifestyle caused by the pandemic has loomed over our heads for too long.

We might even find ourselves thinking, it feels just like the movie Groundhog Day. But while Bill Murray’s character broke the seemingly never-ending spell of repetition by working on bettering himself, the reality of our case cannot be solved with movie magic and character development.

According to a survey conducted in Italy about the pandemic, loss of freedom and boredom were the top issues affecting the mental health of the public. An important element of boredom is control. Not being able to control your situations such as classroom lectures, waiting rooms, and even the pandemic lockdown can cause you to experience boredom. The monotony of the pandemic and lack of interest in the same daily tasks can also contribute.

How can we combat it?

First, it is always important to be reflective with ourselves. Ask yourself if you are taking steps to proper self-care. Are you sleeping enough, eating the right foods, making time for people who care and support you? If you are feeling like you are lacking in any one of those departments, it is time to address it.

With self-care in mind, try to exercise self-compassion. A psychology professor at the University of Texas and an expert in self-compassion, Dr. Kristin Neff, defines it as “relating to ourselves kindly and embracing ourselves flaws and all.” Research has shown that people who practice self-compassion have less depression, anxiety, and fear of failure. Remember to be gentle with yourself and accept that this pandemic has been foreign and difficult on everyone.

Changing up your routine can also help with breaking the cycle of monotony. Humans tend to be creatures of habit, but when the routine starts to affect your well-being then it is time to change it up. If you are noticing that you are feeling unmotivated or unfulfilled then you might want to start altering your daily schedule. Try something new, could be as little as ordering from a new restaurant or watching a new show recommended by a friend. You could also sign up for an online class you have always wanted to take or try out a new hobby. Take a step in the direction of something different such as changing your wardrobe or a new haircut. You want to push yourself into breaking the same routine.

Another recommended tip would be to find your purpose. It is easy to fall into the daily repetition when you feel like you are not working towards anything. Having something to look forward to like planning a deserved trip can help boost motivation. Life goals related to your career or your relationships can help stimulate a sense of purpose. Making plans can give you something to anticipate for and those plans can be small like a dinner with friends or a Zoom call with family. Researchers have found that having something to look forward to helps alleviate the stress of today. By waiting for rewards in the future, people tend to build better self-restraint and stronger resolve.

This pandemic has been a toll on everyone, and it is important to realize you are not alone. Although the state is taking steps to reopen, the effects of the lockdown are still present. Please remember to be considerate with yourself and your loved ones. Being stuck in a rut can be draining but with some extra effort, you can add some freshness and novelty back into your day. If you or a loved one feel like you need some extra assistance in your life, please reach out. We are always here to help.


Knock Out your Burnout

It has been a full year with the pandemic, a full year of uncertainty and isolation which has left a heavy impact on most of the public. The measures to stay inside and limit exposure has changed everyday life. Working from home, ordering groceries online, and even booking virtual appointments for medical needs are becoming the normality. The environment variety has been limited and the social contact comes with moral obstacles. Days blend into weeks and weeks into months and so often we are left wondering what day it is. This monotonous lifestyle of repetition can cause stress and fatigue which can often lead to burnout.

What is burnout?

Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It occurs when you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unable to meet constant demands.”

Burnout can cause a lack of interest and motivation. It can become a drain on energy and can have long-term effects on the body that can compromise your immune system. A common issue with burnout, is that it can sneak up on you. The effects and signs are subtle at first but can degrade over time. People will sometimes notice symptoms of burnout after many months have gone by.

So how can you spot it?

It is important to be introspective and ask yourself questions. According to, here are some of the common emotional, physical, and behavioral signs of burnout:

  • Feeling tired and drained most of the time.

  • Lowered immunity, frequent illness.

  • Withdrawing from responsibilities.

  • Isolating yourself from others.

  • Skipping work or coming in late and leaving early.

  • Sense of failure and self-doubt.

  • Feeling helpless, trapped, and defeated.

  • Loss of motivation.

  • Decreased satisfaction and sense of accomplishment.

Burnout can be caused by work-related or lifestyle issues. The effects of a year of coronavirus can play a factor in a possible cause of burnout. If this resonates with you, then you or a loved one you know might be experiencing burnout.

What steps can you take to help?
Change up your day-to-day routine.

Changing up your routine can stimulate your brain. The repetitiveness restricts our cognitive functioning. Monotony can influence the decline of cognitive functioning and decrease performance. Due to the current lockdown, it has been difficult to go out and change up routines, but that should not stop you. The changes you make can be small. Try changing up where you work, if you have a laptop try taking your work to another room or even outside. If you are often sitting at a desk, make a habit of getting up to stretch, maybe do some exercise, or even dance. Try rearranging your furniture, it might freshen up your living space.

Work boundaries.

Set work boundaries and try to recognize signs of overwork. If you are experiencing heavy symptoms of stress, if possible, take some time off. If you cannot, try to rephrase the way you view your job, a study from Professor Jane E. Dutton and associate professors Gelaye Debebe and Amy Wrzesniewski co-authored the paper, “Being Valued and Devalued at Work: A Social Valuing Perspective” where they investigated the power of job crafting and the effects it had on their subjects. Those that reshaped and changed their outlook on their work to make it more purpose-driven tended to enjoy their jobs.

Practice Mindfulness.

Check-in with yourself, a lot of people associate mindfulness with meditation but that is not always the case. You can be present and mindful doing all sorts of tasks. It can be reading a book, watching your favorite show, chatting with a close friend. If you are present in those moments and not occupied with day-to-day worries it can help combat burnout. Take the time (5-10 minutes) to reflect on the positives, you can set aside time to even write them down in a journal.

Turn to others.

Reach out to close friends and family, it can be hard when you are experiencing burnout, but community and communication are important. Socializing can have a positive effect to calm your nervous system and relieve stress. Although if you feel like you need extra aid, Mental health providers are here to help identify more complex negative behavior patterns and can help with a treatment plan. If you or a loved one feel like you cannot do it alone, please reach out. We are here to help.


Too Much Negativity?

For most of us, the first and last thing we do every day is look at our phones. According to a recent study, the average person checks their phone about 58 times a day which leads to the average American spending about 3 hours and 43 minutes on their mobile device. That time is often spent flipping through apps, communicating with others, and checking in on daily events. Due to the recent election, there has been an issue with stress caused by the media. The American Psychological Association collected data observing the stress of the political climate. They stated:

“In 2020, more than three-quarters of Americans (77%) say the future of our nation is a significant source of stress, up from 66% in 2019. Likewise, the current political climate is reported as a significant source of stress by more than two-thirds of Americans (68%), compared with 62% who said the same in 2019.”

Now add the global pandemic into the equation, psychologists Dana Rose Garfin, E. Alison Holman, and Roxane Cohen Silver discuss in their new paper Health Psychology the detrimental effects of constant media coverage of the coronavirus. With the media at the publics’ fingertips, it is easy for a person to simply click on a button and be exposed to all forms of news. This access can increase a person’s “fight or flight response” which can lead to mental and physical problems. There have been studies involving lasting aftereffects of too much news exposure.

How can we stop the stress?

While the media can be daunting, here are a few tips on how to better control your news exposure.

1. Schedule a time for the news.

Instead of constantly checking in on current events, set a time during the day where you can stay updated. For some people, stepping away from the news completely does not seem feasible so instead set a time limit. Maybe schedule it during breakfast or lunch. Although experts advise not to dive into the news after dinner or before bed.

2. Make Time for Self-Care

Taking a break from the news might be a good step. If you chose to schedule your news time, make sure you also set aside time for self-care. Many professionals suggest reading, exercise, listening to music, calling a loved one, and practicing meditation. Make time to destress with things that bring you joy.

3. Focus on News You Can Solve

Ask yourself what you can do to help. Can you volunteer for local causes? Maybe you can donate to organizations that you support or raise money for them. Try getting in touch with your community and see if you can lend a hand. If you feel helpless, try to just focus on bettering yourself and those around you.

4. Look into Positive News Sites

While it is easy to focus on the negatives, why not start the day with some good news. Here are some recommended sites that are known to show the good in the world.

The Optimist Daily

“To publish positive, solutions stories every day that our subscribers can experience daily and share in just a few moments, so as to elevate, motivate, and reignite each individual’s innate reservoir of intelligent optimism as a way of catalyzing the evolution of human consciousness.”

Good News Network

“Since 1997, millions of people have turned to the Good News Network® as an antidote to the barrage of negativity experienced in the mainstream media. Because of its long history, staying power, and public trust, GNN is #1 on Google for good news.”


“We are pioneers of ‘constructive journalism’ – a new approach in the media, which is about rigorous and relevant journalism that is focused on progress, possibility, and solutions. We publish daily online and Positive News magazine is published quarterly in print.”

When it comes to the media, you should ask yourself what relationship you would like to have. You might not be in control of what is out there, but you can control how you react to it. Listen to yourself, you are your best judgment when it comes to how much you can handle. If you need more guidance, it is important to seek help from a mental health professional. We are here to help.


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